Life is an Interpretation of Ourselves

Life is a reflection of ourselves: a reflection of our attitude.

The angrier we are with life, the more of life we see that makes us angry. It's also true with happiness. Our attitude is the lens with which we see life.

Have life vicious cycle be on your side rather than have it work against you.

Respect & Love

Love, like happiness, is a feeling and feelings come and goes but you'll never love someone you don't respect. Focus on finding thins to respect about your partner and love will take care of itself.

There are many things you can do to live happily in a relationship but it comes down to two things.

1-You must do things that are respectable.
2-You must work on finding the respectable things your partner is doing.

Respect goes beyond the relationship. If you respect your partner in all the right ways but have a tendency to spit on the elderly, you're not being respectful.

Show your partner all the good that is in you.

Passion Vs Work

When you're passionate about something you're willing to do it for free. Work is something you have to do to pay the bills.

When you're getting paid for your passion, it's possible that the passion goes away because it becomes work (or something you have to do to pay the bills).

Wisdom

Wisdom is not having all the knowledge in the world. It’s an awareness of the gap between what you know and what you don’t know with the desire to learn it.

Knowledge doesn’t just happen. You can’t figure out everything on your own, there’s just too much to learn. It’s important to seek information in the subject of your interest.

Feelings - The connections

Feelings is what help people understand each other. It’s the bridge between hearts through which communication flows. When the hearts are in sync, there’s a great deal of understanding. A single word can have a chapter long meaning.

True friends shares this connection and all relationships should not only have it but vow to deepen it.

One must be strong enough to open their hearts in order to initiate the bridge building process. The connection is made once the other person respond to it by opening themselves. Trust and good listening skills are needed. Some people will use this to hurt you but stopping this is like saying you don’t want to connect with anyone. The joy of the connection is stronger than the pain of getting hurt.

If you don’t fully invest yourself in your relationships then what’s the point of having them? What are you waiting for? Connect with people!